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Table of Contents

  1. What is Marriage?
  2. What is Existing UK Divorce Law?
  3. How did we get Here?
  4. Are you against Women’s Rights?
  5. If it is not your Money then whose is it?
  6. Can I have some of her Glory?
  7. Will she share my Debts?
  8. Why is Divorce so Stressful?
  9. How does Divorce compare with Bereavement?
  10. What are FIDO's Objectives and Proposals?
  11. Are you going to Climb up on Cranes?
  12. How do you Appeal to the Court of Human Rights?
  13. Why might you Win at the Court of Human Rights?
  14. Can you Change the Law - there are no Votes in it?
  15. Why has Nobody done this Before?
  16. What can I do to Help?
  17. Why should I Register Support?
  18. How can I Change my Details?
  19. What is an Avatar?

1. What is Marriage?

A deceptiveley simple question. It appears to be generally accepted that marriage is a partnership in the legal sense. If that is the case then it must be arguable that when two parties enter into a partnership, unless the terms of that partnership have been specifically agreed it is implicit that the assets and goodwill accumulated by that partnership relate to its implied scope. To take a specific example, let us suppose that two men wish to enter into a partnership as solicitors (wrecking and the slave trade having been made illegal). They rent premises, print stationery, buy equipment and employ staff. If one of the partners in due course lands an extremely lucrative case then it is totally unacceptable if he attempts to put the proceeds from that case into his own personal bank account. Clearly, these proceeds are the property of the partnership. Let us suppose, however, that out of his own taxed earnings from the partnership he decides to buy a cottage by the seaside which he duly purchases in his own name. After a period of twenty years this cottage’s value vastly exceeds the cost of acquisition. Could his partner, therefore, legitimately claim a share of the cottage? The answer is categorically no. The same must logically apply to a marriage.

Specifically, if two parties get married, one of whom owns a business then quite clearly the assets of that business belong to that person rather than being part of the marriage partnership. What has happened in practice is that the Courts (which arguably are the last bastion of socialism in the UK) have decided that it would be "fairer" if the other spouse had a share in this business. Why? Well, why not - he can afford it! But life itself is unfair. Some people are born wealthy and good looking and some are not. Some people have the energy and determination to make money. Others prefer to while away their lives down the pub or be parasites on those who create wealth. What has fairness got to do with it? Barclays Bank has lots of money - why can’t we all have a share in that? Bill Gates is immensely wealthy. Wouldn’t it be nice if we all had some of his money? Any sensible person knows that such arguments are hopelessly naïve and idealistic and that no sensible person would put them forward - except the UK divorce Courts, that is.

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2. What is Existing UK Divorce Law?

Firstly it should be pointed out that the law in Scotland is different and we are only interested in England and Wales which are covered by the Matrimonial Causes Act of 1973 ( as amended). The division of assets is set out in Section 25 of this act. There is a useful summary of the main principles applicable provided by Messrs Terry & Co, UK Solicitors, on their website under Matrimonial Causes Act

Subsequent to this the law has been modified by a decision made in the White case which went on appeal to the House of Lords. This appeal established the principle that the starting point in the division of assets should be 50:50. The circumstances of the White case were somewhat special. This was a marriage where both parties had married without any kind of significant assets or business and had together built up, over a period of some 30 years, a business based round a farm. They also had a large number of children. In the circumstances the Court decided, perhaps not surprisingly, that this was a joint effort. The assets involved were in the region of £4M or £5M and this does not appear to be an unfair verdict.

The problem is that the courts subsequently have taken this as a starting point for divorce cases of very different circumstances. This is particularly unfair where one party is extremely wealthy, which brings us to the Miller case. The husband appealed to the House of Lords in January 2006 and a decision has just been made (May 2006). The headline facts in the Miller case are that a man with a net wealth in the region of say £30M married a young woman who was previously able to earn some £80,000 per annum and who lived in a rented flat. The marriage ended in less than three years with no children. After an appeal to the Court of Appeal the wife was awarded £5M which, as the Defence Counsel in the Lord's appeal pointed out, amounts to some £5,000 per day for each day that she was married.

Another case currently before the House of Lords is the MacFarlane case. Ken MacFarlane, a partner with accountants firm Deloitte Touche Tohmatsu, is appealing against the £250,000-a-year maintenance awarded to his wife, Julia, and the decision to divide their £3M family assets equally between them. The House of Lords will have to set a value for Julia’s contribution to the marriage as she evidently gave up her career to look after their three children.

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The House of Lords has now handed down decisions in the MacFarlane and Miller cases. In each case they have turned down the appeal, i.e. Melissa Miller will keep her £5M and Julia MacFarlane will receive £250,000 a year for life or until the Court decides otherwise. Clearly the trend towards favouring the less wealthy partner continues and, as several lawyers commented after the case, the House of Lords is now sending out an extremely clear message - “Do not even think of getting married. If you do we will crucify you financially.”

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3. How did we get Here?

There would appear to be a number of factors at play:

There has been a natural reaction against the days when ex-spouses could be discarded relatively casually. Nobody rational wishes to see a return to situation where people are treated cruelly, but the current situation, where people who have earned wealth purely through their own efforts are ruthlessly exploited, is unacceptable.

If an ex-spouse is awarded a few million pounds then each lawyer concerned may well collect £100,000 or so in fees. If payouts were substantially lowered from wealthy estates then inevitably the level of fees which lawyers could reasonably justify would drop substantially. Nobody sensible is suggesting that there is some kind of conspiracy here. Lawyers don’t meet together secretly at midnight working out ways to increase their fees ( 8.00pm in a bar is more normal), but more to the point, they most certainly do not attempt to reach a situation where the general level of payouts is reduced. Bear in mind that lawyers are hired guns and any competent firm of divorce lawyers will be simultaneously acting for a number of cases where they are, in effect, acting for different sides of the argument. Quite literally, a divorce Counsel could find himself in Court one day arguing that it was inequitable for a wealthy spouse to pay out a large amount of money, and then the next day arguing that a different wealthy spouse should pay out a large amount of money! It is inevitable that this situation makes it impossible for a lawyer to take an extreme partisan position.

One day they are outside throwing stones at the glass house. The next day they are inside another glass house trying to protect it from a different mob of stone throwers.

Although any number of wealthy (or post-divorce less wealthy) spouses have grumbled bitterly against the system, nobody appears to have made any kind of serious move to change it. Like frogs being slowly boiled alive we sit there cooking rather than jump out.

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4. Are you against Women’s Rights?

This is nothing to do with the gender of the protagonists. There are many high earning women in the City and in other jobs and it is totally iniquitous that in the event of their divorce they are expected to pay out millions of pounds to men who have made no contribution towards their success. Indeed, in the case of many women, they have also taken on the burden of bearing children and bringing them up - so they are facing a double penalty. Not only have they had the major responsibility of bringing up a family but they are the major breadwinner as well. This situation is especially inequitable.

Unfortunately it is a matter of fact that in the majority of high value divorces it is the husband who has accumulated the wealth and so inevitably, when people discuss a high value divorce they tend to think in terms of “wealthy husband and ex-wife”.

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5. If it is not your Money then whose is it?

Let us suppose for the sake of argument that an extremely wealthy businesswoman marries a man of modest means. Prior to the marriage she has run her company in a manner which suits her own personality and objectives. She makes decisions, signs contracts and cheques, and generally gets on with it. So, when she gets married does anything change? Does the new husband become a signatory on the bank account? Only if she wishes. Does he take part in the decision-making process? Again, only if she wishes. In other words, at the date of marriage, she is in control of all her money and assets. So does that change during the course of the marriage? The simple answer is it does not. Ten or twenty years later, if they are still married, unless she chooses otherwise she is still in exactly the same position. She can carry out major transactions involving large sums of money. None of the lawyers or counter-parties will demand the husband’s signature, nor will they be the slightest bit interested in whether she is married or not. Accordingly, on any normal understanding of English, it is quite clear that even after a substantial marriage the wealthy party is still in total control and ownership of the assets. If that were not the case then in any significant transaction the other side’s lawyers would demand the husband’s signature. So far so clear.

Let us now assume that the husband decides to run off with a younger woman and also decides that it would be appropriate for his new lifestyle to be financed by his previous wife. He rings up his lawyer who tells him that this is an excellent idea and that he will receive the full support of the UK Legal System in this venture. Accordingly he sues for divorce. Suddenly it now appears to be taken for granted that in principle half of his previous wife’s assets are his. So what has happened? What has happened is in fact quite clear. At the point of divorce, the Legal System suddenly steps in and decides to confiscate a large proportion of his ex-wife’s wealth. Let us not mince words here. Divorce is about confiscation of assets from the wealthy party.

[Acknowledgments to Warren Buffet who was the first person to ask the question, “If stock options are not a cost then what are they?” The formulation of this question has brought about a major US accounting change]

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6. Can I have some of her Glory?

To explain this question let us set out the case as put forward by a reader of this website.

“When I got married I had for many years owned and run a successful business. My wife to be was a scientist of considerable ability who was a well respected Professor of Chemistry at a major UK university. Sadly our marriage ended and the Courts, as is their apparent wont, arbitrarily decided that a substantial part of the assets which I had built up as a result of my business activities should be awarded to my wife on the argument that this was somehow a joint venture. This despite the fact that my wife had no interest in the business and made no contribution to it.

Now, in the course of our marriage my wife had a number of major research articles published which established her reputation as a major scientist in her field. As it happened, I failed ‘O’ Level Chemistry but it seems to me that the argument which suggests that my wife should somehow share in the reward from my activities applies directly in the converse direction, namely that I have just as much entitlement to share in the glory of my wife’s scientific papers. Specifically, therefore, why cannot I request the Courts that they order that the authorship of all her scientific papers should include me as an equal contributor? The reason I am making this point is that any sensible person reading this would realise that this is a ludicrous request. Well, I would contend that it is equally ludicrous that my wife should somehow share in the results of my many years of hard work and ingenuity."

Quite!

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7. Will she share my Debts?

Again, to explain this question let us set out the case as put forward by a reader of this website.

"I understand that if I am enormously wealthy and get a divorce then my wife may well be entitled to a large proportion of my assets even though she has played no part whatsoever in acquiring them.  In the event that I were to get divorced enormously in debt, do I take it that my wife would be allocated a large share of my debts?  After all, if this is supposed to be some form of legally constituted partnership then assets and liabilities should be shared equably. Or is this just socialist redistribution of wealth?

You said it!

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8. Why is Divorce so Stressful?

“A lawyer can steal more with a briefcase than 100 men with guns” The Godfather by Mario Puzo

Well, parting from somebody you have spent a long time with, even if you don't get on too well can be very upsetting. The process is made considerably worse by the conduct of lawyers who deliberately raise the temperature. They do this for a number of reasons:

If you are a divorce lawyer and you feel that this is a little unfair then you will have a slight taste of what your clients experience.

Clearly, divorce legislation should be changed so that people who operate in a sensitive, conciliatory and helpful fashion achieve better results for their clients than those who operate at the extremes of human decency.

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9. How does Divorce compare with Bereavement?

Divorce can be worse than bereavement for many people. In a bereavement everybody is extremely sympathetic, you have fond memories of the deceased and in time you can start to move on with your life, although clearly this is extremely painful.

In the case of a divorce, however, you find that not only have you lost the person whom you love and around whom your life revolves, but this person has now become your worst enemy and, encouraged by greedy and ruthless lawyers, is telling lies about you hoping to discredit you in the eyes of the Court. As if that were not bad enough, on top of that they are trying to destroy you financially and take away assets which you have acquired purely through your own efforts and may well indeed have introduced into the marriage in the first place.

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10. What are FIDO's Objectives and Proposals?

FIDO's Objectives are to:

  Influence public, legal and political opinion

  Take a test case to the House of Lords followed by an appeal to the Court of Human Rights in Strasbourg if necessary

  Change the law relating to divorce


FIDO's Proposals are:

  There should be a cooling-off period during which a couple would be encouraged to obtain professional help. During this period the only permitted legal steps would be to ensure that both parties can survive appropriately given their financial circumstances. If at the end of that period one party still wants a divorce then so be it.

  Marriage should be "financially neutral" so that in the event of a divorce (after reasonable provision has been made for any children) both parties would be put in the state in which they could reasonably have hoped to be in the event that they had not got married.

  Pre-nuptial agreements should be made binding in the way that any commercial contract is binding (ie the courts uphold the contract unless it is overwhelmingly onerous but certainly do not arbitrarily rewrite it to make it "fairer" with the benefit of hindsight)

By all means with comments and suggestions

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11. Are you going to Climb up on Cranes?

This is not the intention! The reference to cranes, of course, refers to the Fathers4Justice campaign which a senior QC has been quoted as saying has had a substantial effect on the way that the law has been interpreted in the courts. Accordingly there is no question that that particular campaign has achieved at least part of its objective.

Our campaign is likely to start by finding political and media figures who are able to influence public and legal opinion. Clearly the results of the Miller and MacFarlane cases currently being heard before the House of Lords will be material. We would hope to inspire a steady stream of newspaper, magazine, and other articles as well as radio and television programmes. If you can assist with this process your help will be very much appreciated.

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12. How do you Appeal to the Court of Human Rights?

There are appropriate links in information for applicants

Before one can appeal to the Court of Human Rights one must have exhausted all of the appeal processes. To quote from the website:

“You must have used all the remedies in the State concerned that might have been able to redress the situation you are complaining about ( usually, this will mean an application to the appropriate court, followed by an appeal, where applicable, and even a further appeal to a higher court such as the supreme court or constitutional court, if there is one).”

In the UK this means an appeal to the House of Lords. The whole process could easily take several years.

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13. Why might you Win at the Court of Human Rights?

There are a number of legal grounds for believing that UK Divorce Law contravenes Human Rights legislation and we believe that an appeal to the Court of Human Rights in Strasbourg would be successful.

Apart from the legal arguments, anybody with experience of the law knows that in practice courts invariably start from the premise that they are there to administer justice and fairness and then make the law fit round that framework. The European Court at Strasbourg is no exception and appears to give surprisingly sensible decisions. Why is that surprising? Mainly because we have all been brainwashed into believing that "British Justice is the envy of the world". Well, it is if you are a spouse looking for a meal ticket for life. Certainly our law is the most extreme in Europe and "Harmonisation" would suggest that our law should converge towards the average.

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14. Can you Change the Law - there are no Votes in it?

That may be true but it is my belief that the majority of normal, decent people ( and I think an analysis would show that people who vote are normal, decent people) find the idea of undeserving spouses collecting huge sums of money for no good reason repellant.

As for the assertion that Parliament will only change legislation when there are votes in it, this may be excessively cynical. In the long term legislation tends to move in a sensible direction and we hope that this will prove to be the case with divorce law

Our objective is to introduce a private member’s bill to ensure that high value divorces are handled sensibly. Whether MPs will vote for it and the attitude of the Government are all matters for conjecture. Certainly we can try.

Back in the early eighties, I managed to get the law relating to the rating of empty industrial and warehouse buildings changed and that was surprisingly easy. I made my case to the relevant parties and within a few months the law was changed in line with my suggestions.

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15. Why has Nobody done this Before?

The only people likely to start a campaign like this are people who are already in the process of getting a divorce or feel that it is likely that this may happen in the near future. Those who are unmarried, or happily married, are unlikely to even think of mounting such a campaign. Anybody in the middle of a divorce will undoubtedly be told by their lawyers (as I have been) that by mounting a public campaign of this nature they risk antagonising the Courts making their own situation worse. Having said that, somebody had to do it so I guess I drew the short straw.

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16. How can I Help?

   Register your support on this website

   Give us your comments and suggestions. Either via our forum or contact us at our office or via

   Pass on the message to anybody you think may support us

   If you have a web site please give us a Link

   If you are a substantial political donor make your views known ( we all know, of course, that political parties are not influenced by money but doubtless they will listen to what you have to say )

   Write to your MP

   Help us by using whatever skills and influence you may have.

   I would be delighted to meet you either in the North West or in London if that would help

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17. Why should I Register Support?

By registering you are showing your support for our campaign and one day this may save you a lot of money. We are not looking for charity and sympathy but hard headed people who are prepared to help themselves. If we do nothing, nobody else is going to help. We are on our own.

We will keep you in touch by Email and you will be able to use the forum which should be operational shortly

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18. How can I Change my Details?

Please go to change my details

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19. What is an Avatar?

This is one I use sometimes! They are used in forums to give a unique identity to participants.

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